A Site to show, what's in the mind of Ashlee. . . and to show, my views. . .
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Published on September 17, 2004 By Ashlee Ryder In Blogging
Since you all feel like you know me, and you know that I'm a "liar" I will just admit what you want to hear. Who knows, maybe it will make thinks better?

Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia, were made up. My life, my Christianity, and whatever else you'd like to put in here, is all a lie. Everything is a lie. All of it. The only thing true about me, is that I am with Aric. I have been with Aric for 3 years, a steady 3 years. I'm not 16. I'm 18. Aric and I are already married, I'm 6 months pregnant. I'll be turning 19 in a few weeks, and when I do, it will be Aric and my 1-year anniversary. I'm going to college in a year, majoring in Elementary Education. My real name is Ashlee Allen. I live in Lima, Ohio, with my husband, our 2-year-old daughter Alyssa and our dog.

Bridget is real. She is very real. Read her articles, and don't think of her as being me, because she is in no way me. She may be like me in the sense, that she and I are so close that we act alike sometimes, but she is not me. She is an awesome person with great abilities to change the world like the One Girl Revolution like I once said I'd like to be.

People are so smart ya know... cause you all just seem to "know" everything *laughs hysterically because she realizes how stupid that sounds considering you don't* I know this probably won't mean to much to you, considering I'm a "liar" and all, but I am going to cut back on writing on here, mainly because it's too hard to chase Alyssa around the house, keep it clean, and it will also be a million times harder in 3 months when the new baby comes.

Judge me all you want though. I don't regret having Alyssa when I was 16, and I don't regret getting married so young. I'm really happy with my family. And I'm happy with who I am. Sometimes, it's just a little bit more fun to be someone else for a while. But now, I think it's time to be me. I guess I should tell you the truths about me, and if you choose to read my articles in the future, then that's great, but if not, it's not the end of the world. Joe User is not what keeps me alive and well. And not having certain people read my articles will not keep me up at night, this isn't the only place I write, this is a side job.

My full name is Ashlee Allen, I will have been married for a year on September 27. Which is also my birthday. Alyssa was born on October 1 2001. She's going on 3 and is getting bigger every day and it's starting to make me feel sort of old. My baby is due on December 22. We are planning to name him Aric Gregory Jr. or her Aimee Rae. I used to work for an electrician as a secretary/assistant, but I just started my maternity leave because my doctor told me a week ago at my last appointment that it would be best for me to slow down and relax the last 3 months of this pregnancy.

I am completely in love with Aric Allen. I can't imagine life not being married to him. I can't imagine life without Alyssa, and I can't think of anything that I need to make me complete. Because I already have everything I'll ever need and more.

Sorry for lying to you all, but to be completely honest, I didn't lie about Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia. They are real. Everything else was pretty much one big lie, other than they were my neighbors in Kentucky, but Aric, Alyssa, and myself moved last month to Ohio when Aric's parents offered to help us out if we needed it after moving in to a house here.

So, yeah, I'm sorry. No sense arguing over a bunch of lies with a bunch of people who have nothing better to do with their time. I reallly am sorry

Ashlee

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on Sep 17, 2004
Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia, were made up.


Sorry for lying to you all, but to be completely honest, I didn't lie about Emma Leigh, Shawn and Alysia. They are real.


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on Sep 17, 2004
I was feeding you want you wanted to hear, then I told you the truth. Sorry for making it confusing.

Ashlee
on Sep 17, 2004
I was feeding you want you wanted to hear, then I told you the truth. Sorry for making it confusing.


Meh. I don't know you. Just a bit confused with the wording is all.
on Sep 17, 2004
I am so disappointed I missed out on reading the whole saga, must've been a blast. In any case, this is, like, weird and stuff.
on Sep 17, 2004
Totally blown any cred you had long ago, Ashlee.

You think people care about this half-assed apology? .....You'll only be back a little down the track with more lies and deception, expecting the folks here to believe it.

*suggestion*

Time to change blogging sites girl. Everyone here knows about you and your baloney. You need to find a new captive audience. This one has exposed you for the liar you are.
on Sep 17, 2004
Was your wedding announced in you local paper? Since you gave your full name and city and the date of your wedding I tried to look it up

Look I still don't know what's fact and what's fiction -- if you are almost 19 married with one child and one on the way -- why pretend you're 24 and homeless or 16 and parentless -- and what was all that stuff about with Brandon (and Ashley)

It sounds like you have an interesting enough life that people would want to read about without making anything up

I'm still so very very confused about this whole situation
on Sep 17, 2004
Good Job Ashlee, im proud of you for telling the truth! thanks i told you, you should..
And guys this time she is telling the truth believe me!
on Sep 17, 2004
You think people care about this half-assed apology?


Ugh, this was an apology? Sorry Ashlee, but it didn't seem like an apology to me. It seemed more like an acknowledgement of a rather large chip that is sitting on your shoulder. I never really got into the whole drama when it first happened. I had to distance myself from your writing completely when it came to the whole loss of a baby thing. You see, my wife and I lost our second child. And while it was early in the pregnancy it was still incredibly hard to deal with. The thought that someone would fabricate such pain was too much for me to witness.

I don't know what is truth and what isn't. And frankly I no longer care. There were enough contradictions in this article alone that I don't think any of us even know what to believe anymore.
on Sep 17, 2004
As long as you are happy with yourself. I mean that sincerely not sarcastically. If you are really being truthful now, you must also accept that you have lost some credibility and trust.

I found this statement interesting and wish to comment on it:

>>People are so smart ya know... cause you all just seem to "know" everything *laughs hysterically because she realizes how stupid that sounds considering you don't*

Yeah, laugh it up, I bet you thought it is funny.

I have personally found out on people who lie, and they always say something like, "People seem to think they know everything when they don't." What is that anyway? A secret thought within the liar that made him or her go that way in the first place? People don't know everything and therefore I can say what I want, they might bite and give me some attention. You've had your fun, I bet. And probably only sorry because you can't carry on with this drama. I don't know everything? lol

Have a happy life nonetheless.
on Sep 17, 2004
This is Gideon speaking, Ashlee.

What really hacks me is the way you used Brandon. You think it should be all OK that you took a high school kid and made him out to be a fool? Does your husband know about your little games, and is he proud of you? Furthermore, carebear has continued to be your friend despite your being such a pathological liar.

I hate to say this, ashlee, but you are a genuinely rotten person, and I am truly sorry I wasted my time on your blogs. I am also sorry your children have to grow up with a pathological liar for a mother.
on Sep 17, 2004
LW, probably...but if Ashlee IS 19, she may be a sexual predator...I think that may be why she erased all those blogs (remember, Brandon isn't 18...and on the internet, any attemped sexual relationship with a minor is considered sexual predation and is a FEDERAL felony).

Are your lies starting to make you sweat, ash? I certainly hope so.
on Sep 17, 2004
who really gives a flying fuck?

carry on...

BAM!!!
on Sep 17, 2004
and what was all that stuff about with Brandon (and Ashley)


What really hacks me is the way you used Brandon. You think it should be all OK that you took a high school kid and made him out to be a fool? Does your husband know about your little games, and is he proud of you? Furthermore, carebear has continued to be your friend despite your being such a pathological liar.


I'm sorry Ashlee, but I guess if you are going to continue to lie about everything that happened between me, brandon, and you, i don't know what I'm going to do. Why would you do such a thing. Go and lie and then tell me that you just made it up to be something or somebody. I'm very upset. And this made matter a whole hell of a lot worse. You and everyone else knows what's been going on between me and Brandon since you two had a so called "relationship". And I'm as of right now so depressed it isn't friggin funny. And this really didn't help one bit at all. Why did you do this to Brandon?? I don't even think he knows yet because of his lack of being on here since school work has been drowning us. So I think Im going to tell him all of, and I mean every single thing! I can't believe you'd do all this. You especially hurt me and im sure hurt Brandon once he finds out. You told me, "Aww...it would be so nice for you and Brandon to finally hook up!" Did you even mean anything you said to me. Maybe I shouldn't have became your friend and told you secret things I trusted you with. So did you go and tell Brandon everthing I said. All the things I said I felt for him and all? I just wonder. Maybe you did since you lied about everything else! I don't even know what to do. I'm sitting here crying my eyes out. And it's definatly your fault this time Ashlee. So I hope you're happy with what you've done to you life, the people on JU, and especially me and Brandon.

~carebear~

on Sep 17, 2004
I'm sorry Ashlee, but I guess if you are going to continue to lie about everything that happened between me, brandon, and you, i don't know what I'm going to do. Why would you do such a thing. Go and lie and then tell me that you just made it up to be something or somebody. I'm very upset. And this made matter a whole hell of a lot worse. You and everyone else knows what's been going on between me and Brandon since you two had a so called "relationship". And I'm as of right now so depressed it isn't friggin funny. And this really didn't help one bit at all. Why did you do this to Brandon?? I don't even think he knows yet because of his lack of being on here since school work has been drowning us. So I think Im going to tell him all of, and I mean every single thing! I can't believe you'd do all this. You especially hurt me and im sure hurt Brandon once he finds out. You told me, "Aww...it would be so nice for you and Brandon to finally hook up!" Did you even mean anything you said to me. Maybe I shouldn't have became your friend and told you secret things I trusted you with. So did you go and tell Brandon everthing I said. All the things I said I felt for him and all? I just wonder. Maybe you did since you lied about everything else! I don't even know what to do. I'm sitting here crying my eyes out. And it's definatly your fault this time Ashlee. So I hope you're happy with what you've done to you life, the people on JU, and especially me and Brandon.

~carebear~


Ashlee:

Allow me to translate: Your little GAMES have real casualties.
on Sep 17, 2004
Allow me to translate: Your little GAMES have real casualties.


Thank you Gideon!

~carebear~
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