Conclusions Jumpers!!

I sure do see alot of them on JU lately. . . Wonder why that is, hmm

Published on September 4, 2004 By Ashlee Ryder In Blogging

So, when some of you read my last article, you jumped to some conclusions. Why am I not surprised at this???? What's new right? You never seem to be happy unless your accusing someone of something. So you know what? Go right ahead. Accuse me of whatever your heart desires. I don't have any reason to have to explain myself to you. The only authority that I need to know is okay with everything is God. Not you and not anyone else. So, if you have a problem with it, you'll just have to get over it.

You wanna know why I'm living with my boyfriend? My parents are in Pa, they moved. My school is here in Kentucky. I have a house, but at the moment, I can't live in it. There are many different reasons that I don't feel like getting into right now. Let's just say, paperwork was lost and now I don't have keys. I'm living with Aric, because he is the only person I have here. I have no where else to go. Aric and I don't even share a bed on a normal basis. If he see's I fell asleep in his bed, he crawls in and tells me good-night and gets his pillow and a blanket and sleeps on the couch. You think you know what I will or will not do, but you don't. I've got a better head on my shoulder than you may imagine. Or you might just be trying to ignore it because you know I will probably be farther in life than you by the time I'm 21.

That wasn't very nice... I apologize... actually, No I don't. You have a problem with what I write? That's your problem. I'm not worried about it. And by the way, Aric and I have actually been together for a year or so now. But off and on because he was in the Navy for some time, and we broke things off because we didn't know how the relationship would last being so far away. Go to hell if you think that you know whether or not the relationship will last now.
I love Aric. Always have, always will.

Ashlee

Comments (Page 1)

Erk.

on Sep 05, 2004

.... wonder how long that'll stay there (and this) lol

Sir Peter Maxwell

on Sep 05, 2004

Go right ahead. Accuse me of whatever your heart desires

Why did you shoot John Lennon dear girl?

Ashlee Ryder

on Sep 05, 2004

Why did you shoot John Lennon dear girl?

lol

Ashlee

Ashlee Ryder

on Sep 05, 2004

your parents moved away to PA and left you homeless?

You "have a house" but mysteriously "lost paperwork" so you dont have keys?

You love Aric (and always will!!!) and have been with him "off and on for over a year" but have never mentioned his name one time in your previous articles..(the ones you promptly deleted when your lies were challenged.) Some love, hmm? We hear nothing about this fellow until you announce your "engagement."

First of all, my parents didn't leave me homeless. We were in the works of transferring the deed to the house over to my name, and before I got to sign anything my dad lost the papers. I don't have keys because until I get the papers signed by my parents and also myself, the bank won't let me live there, they have the keys.

I never mentioned Aric before, because I was trying to forget him. Well, not really forget him, but more-less, trying to keep myself from lying in my room crying every night because I missed him. I was doing all I could not to worry about him, and if I was to write about him, then my mind would have been stuck on him, not that it wasn't already, but you know what they say, "Out of sight, out of mind." Which is only partially true. He may have been out of sight, but he definitely was not out of heart or mind. I was under the impression that he had moved on, and so I decided to try and move on. I was scared that if I kept on loving him and missing him, that eventually I'd get the phone call that he was dead. He came back after he had broke his ankle in 3 different places and was Honorably Discharged from the Navy because his ankle wasn't healing like it should have been.

If you don't want to believe me, Oh well... I'm not forcing you to read what I'm writing. And I'm also not forcing you to give me points by replying, whether it be nice remarks or ones that are supposed to hurt me.

Ashlee

Bridget H

on Sep 12, 2004

How do you guyes know if shes really lieing or not?.. i think you all are a bunch of crack heads.

Zoologist03

on Sep 12, 2004

Ugh....I'm so confused I don't even know what to think about this situation.....oh, well....it'll resolve eventually......

~Zoo

carebear07

on Sep 14, 2004

Ok, I'd rather not touch on the subject. But here's something that will cheer you all up!

Link

~carebear~

KarmaGirl

on Sep 14, 2004

How did your parents lose the "paperwork"? All that is handled by title companies (it's not like there is only one piece of paper that hold the "deed" to the house). And, if the title was free and clear from liens, why would there be a bank involved.

Your stories sound so fishy. There are reasons that people question what you write. It's not ethical reasons, it's because the stories don't make sense.

And, if you really don't care what people think, why do you protest so much? Of course, I assume this will just be deleted....

How do you guyes know if shes really lieing or not?.. i think you all are a bunch of crack heads.

You'd have to read the history, which isn't exactly available to read. (along with a very odd and fake blog about a couple that she supposedly knew).

Ashlee, I seriously think that you need to speak with a professional.

trina_p

on Sep 14, 2004

Karma - Bridget H is supposedly Ashley's cousin - according to her own blog and Ashleys from a few months ago.

Um - is it legal for 16 year olds to no only be their own legal guardian but own property? And don't even get me started on her driving licence. I wasn't aware 16 year olds could even sign things - they can't get married without parental and court permission - even at 18 its questioned here (Australia) - they can't sign a registry - when we got married we couldn't have Nick's 17year old brother or my 16year old sister as our best man/maid of honour because they couldn't sign the registry - the witnesses had to be over 18.

I just don't understand Ashlee Ryder

KarmaGirl

on Sep 15, 2004

Karma - Bridget H is supposedly Ashley's cousin - according to her own blog and Ashleys from a few months ago.

I'm sure she is .....matter of fact, they are so close that they have used the same computer at the same session to blog on here.

Um - is it legal for 16 year olds to no only be their own legal guardian but own property?

No, by FEDERAL law, a minor can not go into contract. Property can be put in a trust and awarded at age of 18. And, a minor has to live with a legal guardian no matter what state you live in. A child (which a 16 year old is) is considered abandoned unless they have court documents that have divorced them from their parents and give them rights to live on their own.

Bridget H

on Sep 16, 2004

I'm sure she is .....matter of fact, they are so close that they have used the same computer at the same session to blog on here.

whats that mean???.. they have used the same computer at the same session to blog on here.... i dont understand that doesnt make much sence at all...

trina_p

on Sep 16, 2004

Way to ignore the real issues.

But I think it means that you have the same ISP -- Karma can see all that kinda stuff cause she's an Admin (well her altaego JavaBrain is anyway) --- thats how they could tell that someone made up an alter ego

KarmaGirl

on Sep 17, 2004

whats that mean???.. they have used the same computer at the same session to blog on here.... i dont understand that doesnt make much sence at all...

It means that "you" and "Ashlee" posted on JU on the same computer back to back during the same session (hence having the same IP address during the same time). Funny things about IP addresses and timestamps, they tell you a lot. They also can tell you where the person is

Bridget H

on Sep 17, 2004

no we wernt on the same computer im sorry.. i think that you dont know what you are talkin about..
how can that happen anyways?

KarmaGirl

on Sep 17, 2004

no we wernt on the same computer im sorry.. i think that you dont know what you are talkin about..
how can that happen anyways?

then, how did you end up with the same IP address within minutes of each other? Or, are you not sure what an IP address is or how sessions work?

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